You’re Bound to Be Surprised
November 13th, 2004 by HalI've been telling people listening is the master skill of the leader. Jeffrey Cufaude goes one step further. In
Just Perhaps, Jeffrey reminds us that sincere inquiry with the predisposition of being influenced by what is said is critical for bringing us together.
"Until we can listen to others with whom we might violently disagree with some degree of authentic curiosity, openness, and respect, little is possible."
Next time you find yourself disagreeing OR agreeing, stop to investigate why the person is saying what s/he's saying. You're bound to be surprised.
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