Credible Leaders Take The Time To Listen And Learn
Monday, June 30th, 2003
I'm sharing this morning's The Listening Leader newsletter with you to go along with my recent postings on (5R) Protocol for a Listening Workplace and Reflections on 5S and 5R. The two paragraphs come from the book Credibility by Kouzes and Posner. While the lesson is geared at leaders, the project situation demands listening from all performers. There is good advice here for project managers/leaders and those coordinating the work of others.
Credible Leaders Listen And Learn
Impressive listening skills have been identified as one common characteristic of credible leaders. A willingness to listen carefully to constituents and, if necessary, to hear the bad news keeps leaders from being isolated from critical feedback. When they can get information from a variety of sources, across functions and levels, they are able to know what is going on. To serve others well, leaders must be in touch with them, listen to them, and respect them. Ever try getting good service at a restaurant when your waiter or waitress is never around, is too busy, or seems to think something you have asked for was too much bother?
Being able to listen to the news, good and bad, is a basic ingredient for staying in touch. When things are going well, it's not all that difficult to hear the good news. It's how we react to news about mistakes and difficulties that may be the better indicator of whether or not constituents feel like keeping us in touch. From the constituent's perspective, the question is always, "Did they still shoot the messenger with bad news?"
How do you react to mistakes and difficulties? Are you inviting those conversations? Are you thanking people for those conversations? Are you clear you appreciate the opportunity to learn from these conversations? If you answered "No" to any of these questions, then you're not likely to be hearing all of what you need to hear for a successful project.
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